Wednesday, May 30, 2018

what's up wednesday

Linking up with MelSheaffer, and Shay!

What we're eating this week:
So this isn't eating, but I mixed grenadine, orange juice, tequila and Triple Sec on Saturday night for this delicious beverage. Best accompanied by dry Captain Crunch and Pretty Woman on the TV.

As for food, we have a lot of leftovers from Memorial Day (burgers, vegan macaroni salad, etc.). We also had buffalo cauliflower tacos this week.

What I'm reminiscing about:

After a Dunkin trip last weekend, I mentioned that Elden must have really loved his doughnut because he inhaled it. He replied, "yeah, it's my favorite. I took a picture of it on your phone." - I have NO IDEA when he managed to do this as neither Jon nor I saw it happen but sure enough: here it is.

What I'm loving:

A coworker brought in a bunch of clippings from his lilac bush and it made our entire office smell heavenly.

What we've been up to:

Our yard is pathetic. We did a lot of work in it over the weekend. It still needs a ton of mulch but Lowe's ran out so we had to order it and now we wait.

What I'm dreading:

We never buy paint samples. But since we are painting more than half of our first floor the same color, we ended up buying TEN. BECAUSE WE CAN NEVER AGREE ON ANYTHING HOUSE RELATED. By the end of it I told Jon to just pick because I couldn't handle it anymore.

Now we have to actually start the painting and then tear up the carpet and lay down the new laminate and please just hold me.

What I'm working on:

Surviving and not letting my house become condemned. Also Swagbucks. I'm currently at 30% of my Disney savings goal and by the end of the week I will be at closer to 40%! I am trucking along and I am so glad I started Swagging.

What I'm excited about:

Elden and Edith's dance recital is in June!

What I'm watching:

Way too much NBA. Jon isn't a huge sports guy unless it's playoffs or a championship series, and as a result he binges during this time of year. I am dying over here.

What I'm listening to:


What I'm wearing:

I bought a pair of these and I actually really like them.

What I'm doing:

We have been spending so much time outside. Thank goodness, too, because the kids seem so much happier when we get to go out!

What I'm looking forward to next month:


Monday, May 21, 2018

life lately

Life has been pretty frantic lately. Between finishing up our master bath remodel and then preparing for a yard sale this past weekend, many household tasks fell by the wayside.

I made vegan chocolate chip cookies. I did something wrong because when they were baked half looked weird. They tasted good, though!

On Mother's Day I took this selfie with my three little people:

My dad also got me these flowers. (And today is his birthday! Happy birthday, Dad!)

Our favorite ice cream place opened up their new shop so we went on opening day to check it out. It's close to our library and offers several vegan flavors so I see lots of ice cream trips in our near future!

We've spent a lot of time outside. Edith was rocking her magical shirt that goes from white to colorful in the sun from her Aunt Jacqui.

The older two had Moana dance camp. One of our friends generously gave Edith an extra Moana outfit she could wear during it.

I have been living off red onions and bell peppers. I saute them up in water (instead of oil) and add salt and taco seasoning we got from Costco until tender. I have added them to pasta and rice and I also eat it by itself. I can't get enough.

We went to my parent's house this weekend. My mom kept some of our childhood toys and Edith's favorites are my Polly Pockets. They were one of my favorite toys as a little girl so it's really exciting to see her love on them like I did.

Last night was the night I attempted to reclaim our kitchen. We finally weaned Etta off formula and the bottle so I was able to get rid of the bottle drying rack next to the sink. I also moved all the first aid/medicine stuff I had in one cabinet which freed up space to declutter some of the counters and the top of the fridge. I also swept, mopped, scrubbed the counters, and cleaned the disgusting windows by the table where the kids sit.
It doesn't look like much but there was definitely a huge difference in this room! I am taking decluttering our lives a lot more seriously and I purged three grocery bags worth of stuff from 1 drawer and 3 cabinets.

Now that our master bath remodel is totally done, our next big project is going to be tearing out the carpet and railings in the front room, foyer and dining room and replacing it with the same laminate in our living room. We also need to tear up the kids' bathroom floor and lay the same vinyl that's in our bathroom. I'm putting that off because I'm guessing the subfloor is damaged and I'm not really sure how to fix that ourselves. 

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

master bathroom remodel for less than $5500

When Jon and I set out to remodel our bathroom, our budget was $5000. A contractor we spoke with told us that was a lofty goal for all we wanted to do, but we had added up a lot of the materials costs and were pretty confident we could keep it around that price point if we did a lot of the work ourselves.

We removed tile, wallpaper, and the mirror, vanity, towel bars, and toilet ourselves.

Our contractor took out the old shower, repaired the sub floor, replaced the exhaust light/fan, updated the plumbing, moved electrical from the ceiling to the wall, patched drywall/ceiling, skimmed the drywall, installed the new shower, and altered our vanity so it would fit where we needed it to from a plumbing standpoint.

To finish it off, Jon and I painted everything--ceiling, walls and trim. Jon laid the floors. We cut and installed the trim. Jon hooked up the vanity, sink faucet and toilet. We hung the mirror, cabinet, and towel bar. Eventually I will replace the door knob but I'm not in any hurry to do that.

So how did we do?! Between materials and the contractor's cost, we came out to $5419.36. That doesn't include any cash back I got by buying discounted gift cards through Swagbucks and shopping online for store pick-up via Ebates and Swagbucks. I'm guessing between the cashback on those two methods I saved at least another $100 or so.

Here are the main ways we saved money:
-doing a lot of the demo / finishing work ourselves 
-buying store coupons on Ebay. I got Lowe's coupons for a few dollars but gave me 10% off.. on a $500-$1000 order that makes a huge difference!
-using Ebates and Swagbucks to get cash back on the materials we needed
-buying discounted gift cards to the stores we needed from Swagbucks and Retailmenot

Monday, May 14, 2018

master bathroom remodel reveal!

It. is. finished! And I am SO EXCITED. I have spent so much time in this room just staring at it.

Cabinet (custom ordered from a local woodworker) 
Toilet (we replaced this when we first moved in and just kept it)
Towel / toilet paper bars (Aldi special buy)
Paint (Sea Salt by Sherwin Williams)

Friday, May 11, 2018

ten on ten

Technically my day started around 2:30 am thanks to thunderstorms waking up Elden.
Here's a fun little tidbit about Elden--he is in the 98th percentile for height. Currently, he sleeps in a twin bed.. sideways. He surrounds himself with blankets and stuffed animals and calls it his nest. So when he woke up to the storm I crawled into the bottom half of his bed with him and attempted to sleep. While I attempted to sleep, he would periodically inform me it was indeed thundering, that he saw lightning, etc. Between the lack of space, Elden talking, and Pip trying to get cuddles, I am not entirely convinced I even got the light sleep my Fitbit indicated during that time.

A lousy night's sleep was made up for in the form of doughnuts that a coworker brought in!

One of my favorite parts of the day is when the kids call me on the Ring. Etta frantically waves once I am able to say hi to her over the doorbell.

For lunch I had leftovers -- it was actually spaghetti my mother-in-law made! 

After work we had dinner. Then I had to try to make Edith's dance costume less itchy because she lost her mind whenever I slid it on.

I used duct tape and hot glue at the recommendation of her studio but she still said it was too itchy. Edith is definitely triggered by specific sensations--she HATES seams on socks and tights, for instance--so I ended up putting her in her swimsuit underneath. That worked perfectly, so off to dance pictures we went!

After dance pictures we rushed home because we needed to drop the van off at the auto shop. While Jon took care of that, I got the kids bathed, teeth brushed, and we read a book.

Around the time we finished reading, Jon and his parents arrived (they brought him back from the shop) so we let the kids go down to spend a few minutes with them.

While the kids played with Jon's parents I finished spraying the dandelions in the front yard.

And my favorite part of Thursdays once the kids are in bed: JERSDAY! Yes, Jersey Shore Family Reunion is my guiltiest of pleasures.

It was a slower paced Thursday than I'm used to and I'm not complaining in the least.

Wednesday, May 9, 2018

early mother's day celebration

Last night we took the kids to Bomba to celebrate Mother's Day a little bit early because 1) kids eat free on Tuesdays and 2) who wants to fight all the crowds on the day itself?

We never take the kids to sit down restaurants because it is really stressful trying to get them to behave and I'm never terribly excited to spend $8 on some food they likely won't eat. I was nervous because I don't think we've ever taken Etta to a restaurant and even though Bomba had items like cheese quesadillas and popcorn chicken with fries on their children's menu, Elden is known for being a royal pain in the butt when it comes to food.

I'm happy to report that it was an amazing meal and the kids did fantastic! Jon had to take Etta outside to walk the plaza after we ordered because homegirl was hangry but Elden and Edith colored and patiently waited for the food. In a shocking turn of events, Elden ordered chicken tacos and Edith ordered popcorn chicken (we thought for sure they would have chosen popcorn chicken and cheese quesadillas, respectively), and we ordered Etta chicken tacos as well. Jon got a hodgepodge of vegan-friendly appetizers  (plantains, yucca fries and ancient grains) as well as two zucchini tacos. In the greatest gift of all, he encouraged me to do the 10 tacos for $30 deal all for myself so I could have leftover tacos today. I got four Rio-style chicken, two zucchini, two charred kale and corn, one classic beef and one classic chicken. I think the Rio-style chicken remains my favorite, followed closely by the charred kale and corn. I also had a watermelon basil margarita that was life-giving.
Once the food came the kids basically inhaled it. Etta ate both hers and Elden's pico de gallo.
Elden took selfies.
Edith (who didn't want any pictures taken of her) didn't sit with food in her mouth, chewing for eight million minutes like she typically does. Since everyone did so great, we decided to reward them with Menchie's after. In spite of moving when Elden was not quite three, he remembers Menchie's and would ask to go there basically any time we were near our old house (which is by church and the pediatrician, so we are there often). I'm pretty sure yesterday was the first time we'd been back in close to three years! Etta was a huge fan:
Honestly, it was my favorite Mother's Day yet. Nights like yesterday remind me that this hard season of shrieking, irrational tiny people is indeed a season and that eventually we will be able to all sit down and enjoy a meal together. I really like this clan of misfits.

Monday, May 7, 2018


Lately our weekends have been anything but low-key, but it's honestly not the worst thing in the world. Ask me again in two months how I feel about all of it, but this weekend wasn't so bad.

On Friday evening, we made dinner then headed to Akron to take a meal to a member of our church. Since the kids had been in the car for about half an hour we let them run around the mall for a bit. After we got home and got them in bed I actually headed back to Akron for girls night with my small group. We went to dinner (where I ate fried pickles and French onion soup - so healthy). I headed home around 11 and was totally exhausted by the time I went to bed.

Saturday morning we took the big kids to Journey to Oz at Playhouse Square. If you have kids I highly recommend this show! It was totally interactive--they brought kids up on stage throughout the show and encouraged you to participate in your seats. It lasted an hour and was perfect for our kids.

After the show we got Etta from Jon's parent's and headed home. We spent the rest of the day doing yard work, working on the bathroom, putting together the new beds from my sister in Elden's room, etc. Once the kids were in bed I also worked on reclaiming our room a bit from the chaos of this bathroom remodel.

Sunday morning we stayed home from church and had donuts for breakfast. My mom came over for a few hours to see the kids.
During nap time I met up with a few girlfriends at a local spa for some pampering and oh my heavens. I cannot wait to go back...
The robes felt like blankets and I was ready to take a nap.

Once I got home from the spa, we headed to Jon's parent's house to celebrate his brother's birthday.

It was a nice weekend, both due to our activities and the glorious weather. I am in no position to relax, though, because this is the current state of affairs of our garage:
Suffice to say, getting things organized for our yard sale in less than two weeks is a major item on our to do list.

Linking up with BLovedBoston & The Sirois Family